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My child says they can't keep up and wants to quit. What should I do?
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- EditorsBest answerListen first and find out the real reason. Does your child feel less skilled or embarrassed? Are there problems with teammates or the coach? Or is training too tiring and the schedule too tight? If it is a skill gap, talk to the coach about a level that fits better, or do some low-pressure practice at home so your child can see their own progress. Focus on effort and improvement rather than winning. If your child mentions anything that made them feel uncomfortable or afraid, take it seriously and contact the organization or use our confidential report channel.
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