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Clubs and training0Compare clubs, academies and community programs; schedules, costs and switching clubs.
Tryouts0When tryouts are, how to prepare, when results come, what to do after a cut.
Tournaments and leagues0Schedules, divisions, venues, hotels and watching games.
Officiating and rules0Rules, how calls are made and how to file a formal concern. About competitions and leagues — never a named referee.
School and college pathways0Sport academies, private schools, high-school teams, college recruiting and scholarships.
Gear0Shoes, balls, protective gear, sizing and second-hand.
Parent vent0Get it off your chest. Talk about organizations and practices, not personal attacks.

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My 8-year-old is a complete beginner. City program or club first?
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What's the difference between a rep team and a club team?
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My child didn't make the team at tryouts. What now?
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Roughly how much does a season cost?
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What's a normal hourly rate for a private coach?
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How can I check whether a coach has had a background check?
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Can my child play on a school basketball team and a club team at the same time?
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Does playing basketball help with applying to US universities?
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What age should girls start volleyball?
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What's the difference between the fall and spring soccer seasons?
Editors2026-10-20Soccer
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We registered for a camp but can't go. Can we get a refund?
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My child says they can't keep up and wants to quit. What should I do?
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How do birth-year age groups work?
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We don't have a car. How can my child get to practice?
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Should my child specialize in one sport early or play several?
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